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		<title>Comment on Happy 2 year anniversary blog! by trueblisscoach</title>
		<link>http://trueblisscoach.com/2012/02/21/1332/#comment-368</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2012 15:23:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[And mine because of you!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And mine because of you!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Happy 2 year anniversary blog! by Marlene Keys</title>
		<link>http://trueblisscoach.com/2012/02/21/1332/#comment-367</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Marlene Keys]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2012 14:52:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Glo, it is a pleasure to know you both personally and professionally. My life is better because of you. Thank you!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Glo, it is a pleasure to know you both personally and professionally. My life is better because of you. Thank you!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Resourcefulness: A learned skill by trueblisscoach</title>
		<link>http://trueblisscoach.com/2012/02/11/resourcefulness-a-learned-skill/#comment-364</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Feb 2012 17:18:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Very interesting, Marc. Thanks for this. Ironically, I&#039;m catching up on my reading. Currently nearing the end of Daniel Pink&#039;s book Drive he speaks about the invention of Post-it notes and how that idea came to one scientist during the 15% downtime they were allotted to work on projects that were of interest to them as individuals. Much like Google does today.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very interesting, Marc. Thanks for this. Ironically, I&#8217;m catching up on my reading. Currently nearing the end of Daniel Pink&#8217;s book Drive he speaks about the invention of Post-it notes and how that idea came to one scientist during the 15% downtime they were allotted to work on projects that were of interest to them as individuals. Much like Google does today.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Resourcefulness: A learned skill by Marc</title>
		<link>http://trueblisscoach.com/2012/02/11/resourcefulness-a-learned-skill/#comment-363</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Marc]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Feb 2012 16:45:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Try typing the three words without quotation marks into a Google search and look at the first page or so of results.  Wittgenstein is cited as the source of the &quot;bed, bath, bus&quot; idea.  It is interesting that anecdotal tales of major discoveries, from Archimedes to Newton to the discovery of penicillin and Post-it notes, are linked to downtimes in linear thinking by people who have deep knowledge and have thought deeply prior to those downtimes.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Try typing the three words without quotation marks into a Google search and look at the first page or so of results.  Wittgenstein is cited as the source of the &#8220;bed, bath, bus&#8221; idea.  It is interesting that anecdotal tales of major discoveries, from Archimedes to Newton to the discovery of penicillin and Post-it notes, are linked to downtimes in linear thinking by people who have deep knowledge and have thought deeply prior to those downtimes.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Resourcefulness: A learned skill by trueblisscoach</title>
		<link>http://trueblisscoach.com/2012/02/11/resourcefulness-a-learned-skill/#comment-362</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[trueblisscoach]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Feb 2012 16:21:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks, Marc, for your additional insights. You bring up some very valid points although I have to respectfully challenge the thought that we need to have experience to think outside the box. Working with a coach creates an opportunity to explore new ways of thinking without necessarily having experienced them. This comes from supporting the client in creating powerful visions. 

I really like the &quot;bed, bath, bus&quot; reference. I had never heard that!

Glo]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, Marc, for your additional insights. You bring up some very valid points although I have to respectfully challenge the thought that we need to have experience to think outside the box. Working with a coach creates an opportunity to explore new ways of thinking without necessarily having experienced them. This comes from supporting the client in creating powerful visions. </p>
<p>I really like the &#8220;bed, bath, bus&#8221; reference. I had never heard that!</p>
<p>Glo</p>
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		<title>Comment on Resourcefulness: A learned skill by Marc</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Marc]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Feb 2012 15:28:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Resourcefulness, as you&#039;ve described it, consists of recognizing opportunities, thinking &quot;out of the box&quot;, then acting on them.  To do this from personal ability requires being exposed to a wide variety of experiences, learning from them, remembering the learning, and recognizing the opportunity to apply them elsewhere.  People who have diverse education and interests, change jobs or careers, move, have been poor or lacked resources, and have been exposed to failure and learned from it, tend to be more flexible and resourceful.

The internet provides us with a great source for browsing how others have approached similar problems, bringing much of the world&#039;s knowledge to us.  Proper research of established knowledge should always precede spending resources to develop new ideas.  Using Google Image search and searching through online PowerPoints are a great way of focusing searches towards people who really know what they are talking about.

Groups of people can be more resourceful than individuals because of their wide experience - IF - they can work together, avoid groupthink, and function well enough to make good choices.  Since groups go through the &quot;forming, storming, norming, performing stages&quot;, brainstorming  ideas from newly formed groups is not very effective.  There is some evidence, however, that brainstorming &quot;incognito&quot; via the web can improve the ability of a group to develop novel ideas.

Personal resourcefulness happens best when we are not directly thinking about a problem, but have thought about it and allowed our minds to go elsewhere.  There is sound evidence that &quot;bed, bath, and bus&quot; occasions when we are awake but constrained by circumstances not to do much, allow for &quot;Eureka&quot; moments. Archimedes was right.

Necessity can make us more resourceful than abundance, unless the necessity is life-threatening and paralyzing.  I remember  as a student wanting a cruise control on my first car, since I had to drive it from Texas to Quebec, but not having the money to install even an aftermarket throttle control, much less a cruise control.  The result was a makeshift but very effective throttle control made of some sheet metal, a bent welding rod, a turnbuckle, and (2) rubber bands - exactly a la McGyver.  It held a constant throttle, cut off when I put on the brake, allowed me to override with my foot to accelerate, then come back to the set position, and provided infinite adjustment  - all for less than $5.00 of materials.

Coaching, as you suggest, is a way of providing external &quot;prodding&quot; to help people think outside of their normal comfort zones, much as a devil&#039;s advocate can help a group to avoid groupthink.   It is important to steer the coachee who is seeking solutions towards 1) research of pre-existing ideas 2) group knowledge or knowledge from recognized experts 3) learning from failure rather than depression 4) operating with minimal resources rather than abundance unless faced with a crisis, and especially 5) waiting for the &quot;bed, bath, bus&quot; moment to appear once they&#039;ve reflected carefully on steps 1-4.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Resourcefulness, as you&#8217;ve described it, consists of recognizing opportunities, thinking &#8220;out of the box&#8221;, then acting on them.  To do this from personal ability requires being exposed to a wide variety of experiences, learning from them, remembering the learning, and recognizing the opportunity to apply them elsewhere.  People who have diverse education and interests, change jobs or careers, move, have been poor or lacked resources, and have been exposed to failure and learned from it, tend to be more flexible and resourceful.</p>
<p>The internet provides us with a great source for browsing how others have approached similar problems, bringing much of the world&#8217;s knowledge to us.  Proper research of established knowledge should always precede spending resources to develop new ideas.  Using Google Image search and searching through online PowerPoints are a great way of focusing searches towards people who really know what they are talking about.</p>
<p>Groups of people can be more resourceful than individuals because of their wide experience &#8211; IF &#8211; they can work together, avoid groupthink, and function well enough to make good choices.  Since groups go through the &#8220;forming, storming, norming, performing stages&#8221;, brainstorming  ideas from newly formed groups is not very effective.  There is some evidence, however, that brainstorming &#8220;incognito&#8221; via the web can improve the ability of a group to develop novel ideas.</p>
<p>Personal resourcefulness happens best when we are not directly thinking about a problem, but have thought about it and allowed our minds to go elsewhere.  There is sound evidence that &#8220;bed, bath, and bus&#8221; occasions when we are awake but constrained by circumstances not to do much, allow for &#8220;Eureka&#8221; moments. Archimedes was right.</p>
<p>Necessity can make us more resourceful than abundance, unless the necessity is life-threatening and paralyzing.  I remember  as a student wanting a cruise control on my first car, since I had to drive it from Texas to Quebec, but not having the money to install even an aftermarket throttle control, much less a cruise control.  The result was a makeshift but very effective throttle control made of some sheet metal, a bent welding rod, a turnbuckle, and (2) rubber bands &#8211; exactly a la McGyver.  It held a constant throttle, cut off when I put on the brake, allowed me to override with my foot to accelerate, then come back to the set position, and provided infinite adjustment  &#8211; all for less than $5.00 of materials.</p>
<p>Coaching, as you suggest, is a way of providing external &#8220;prodding&#8221; to help people think outside of their normal comfort zones, much as a devil&#8217;s advocate can help a group to avoid groupthink.   It is important to steer the coachee who is seeking solutions towards 1) research of pre-existing ideas 2) group knowledge or knowledge from recognized experts 3) learning from failure rather than depression 4) operating with minimal resources rather than abundance unless faced with a crisis, and especially 5) waiting for the &#8220;bed, bath, bus&#8221; moment to appear once they&#8217;ve reflected carefully on steps 1-4.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Planting Seeds by trueblisscoach</title>
		<link>http://trueblisscoach.com/2012/01/20/planting-seeds/#comment-352</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[trueblisscoach]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Jan 2012 13:25:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks, Marc, as always for your additional insights. I truly appreciate that you take the time to visit my blog!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, Marc, as always for your additional insights. I truly appreciate that you take the time to visit my blog!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Planting Seeds by Marc</title>
		<link>http://trueblisscoach.com/2012/01/20/planting-seeds/#comment-351</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Marc]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Jan 2012 12:47:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Patience, as you have rightly described, means planting seeds and waiting for them to grow.  It implies focus and persistence as well.  When we get impatient, we can easily get sidetracked towards other things than our main goals, and/or lose hope and the enthusiasm and just plain hard work and discipline required to achieve goals.
Following your gardening analogy, planting and waiting = patience.  Focus and persistence = watering, weeding, and fertilizing, rather than letting the garden go to weeds, buying another garden, or deciding to become a truck driver rather than a gardener.
Thanks for your note.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Patience, as you have rightly described, means planting seeds and waiting for them to grow.  It implies focus and persistence as well.  When we get impatient, we can easily get sidetracked towards other things than our main goals, and/or lose hope and the enthusiasm and just plain hard work and discipline required to achieve goals.<br />
Following your gardening analogy, planting and waiting = patience.  Focus and persistence = watering, weeding, and fertilizing, rather than letting the garden go to weeds, buying another garden, or deciding to become a truck driver rather than a gardener.<br />
Thanks for your note.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why Feelings Matter by trueblisscoach</title>
		<link>http://trueblisscoach.com/2012/01/09/why-feelings-matter/#comment-344</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[trueblisscoach]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jan 2012 16:04:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dominique, right back at you my friend. Thanks for visiting my blog.

Glo]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dominique, right back at you my friend. Thanks for visiting my blog.</p>
<p>Glo</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why Feelings Matter by Dominique O'Rourke</title>
		<link>http://trueblisscoach.com/2012/01/09/why-feelings-matter/#comment-343</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dominique O'Rourke]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jan 2012 15:54:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A great post from someone who really walks the talk. Thank you for the reminder and the resources Glo.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A great post from someone who really walks the talk. Thank you for the reminder and the resources Glo.</p>
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